I can still picture her, my wee Granny, who was born, lived
and died, in the lowlands of Scotland. Small in stature,
barely five feet, but large of heart, she was one of three,
a triplet, born into an already large family. My wee
granny's maiden name was Jean Clark and I was named after
her. I was very pleased because she became a rich part of
my life.
Granny had a large family of her own, ten in number, and
she lived to be 90.
In the fullest sense of the word she was a typical
housewife, spending all her time raising her family and
keeping house. Nevertheless she was a deeply contented
person.
Sometimes I wonder what she would have thought of the
Woman's Liberation Movement. Granny never felt trapped;
therefore she had no need to be liberated.
When her children married they stayed in the same village,
Douglas West, and raised their own families. With the
passage of time she became a grandmother to 30 children.
Granny's place was the hub around which her children and
grandchildren revolved. She was the gentle but strong force
at the centre. Her special touch on my life enabled me to
touch my own children. Bossiness was alien to her nature;
she was gentle in word and deed. Granny was one of the
humble people of the earth and a fine sense of her own
worth. I was proud of her. She treated all her children
with respect never placing one above the other.
I recall one of Granny's many habits which manifested
itself on Fridays. Friday was Penny day, at various times
of the day all her grandchildren put in their appearances
to receive their pennies. I was taught not to ask for my
penny but to wait until granny thought of it. I'd sit on a
chair inside the door and try not to look to impatient,
hoping she wouldn't take to long to remember. She'd go
about her kitchen chores, stirring the fire, putting the
kettle on to boil. Suddenly it dawned "Oh dearie me, I
almost forgot your penny" My smile matched hers as she
fumbled in her apron pocket for her purse. She glowed with
the satisfaction of giving as she placed the coin into my
waiting hand.
"Thanks, Granny" I almost yelled and ran out the house,
heading for the sweetie shop.
When my parents left Scotland to come to America I was both
glad and sad. I will never forget the morning we left.
Granny was fussing around the breakfast table, serving the
eggs she had bought specially. I tried to catch her eyes
but she avoided my gaze.
The moment had come, we put on our coats and
hats....granny's lips trembled and she started to cry...
She was so brave. We knew we would never see her and
grandfather again and they knew it too.
After an absence of 44 years, I went back to Scotland, we walked
up the hills from Douglas to Douglas West, I knew every
turn in the road. We arrived at the top and the village
came into view. I was shocked! My heart sank. The village
was empty. So empty!
Two elderly men said "I knew your father" "he was The
Hostler"... I walked slowly from house to house seeking out
familiar spots. I peopled the empty houses with people I
had known...I knew where everyone of them had lived. The
house I had lived in was shuttered, the door locked. I had
come 3000 miles and the door was locked!
I felt ancient that day, like a part of history fading into
the background. Sadness returned but this time, gladness
was its partner. Now I felt glad that I had known such a
happy time here and my wee granny had been such a part of
it.
Jean C Schmidt
Original story© Jean C Schmidt 2004
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2005, 2012, 2016
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